For many young adults, especially those with neurodevelopmental disorders, finding a space to build social skills and connect with peers can be challenging. At The Dorm, our in-person programming offers a structured yet flexible environment where young adults can integrate into a supportive community while practicing essential life skills. We spoke with the Director of The Dorm D.C., Amie DiTomasso, LICSW, MPH, to learn more the value of in-person treatment for young adults mastering connection and personal growth.
Q&A with Director Amie DiTomasso, LICSW, MPH
The Dorm: What makes in-person support during treatment so important for neurodivergent young adults?
Amie DiTomasso, LICSW, MPH: Having a program that emphasizes in-person support and care gives young adults the space to integrate and connect with others in their age group, and in a diverse population. Neurodivergence, including diagnoses like autism, adhd, ocd, or dyslexia, is becoming more common and widely understood, so providing a safe place where individuals can not only gain skills and build insight but also apply them in a controlled setting is crucial. It’s about creating a space where they can explore, get feedback, practice, and feel supported while they build skills.
Why are face-to-face relationships so valuable during treatment?
Technology and online relationships have had a significant impact on social connectedness. Many individuals spend time connecting online, but those people may not be part of their immediate community. We encourage participants to build local, in-person connections alongside their online relationships. The goal is to have both—being able to make friends online or through gaming is great, but also having people nearby that you can meet up with in person is essential – someone you can go for a walk with or have dinner. These local connections provide a support network that you can rely on when challenges arise.
Do you have differences in social communication, sensory sensitivity, preference for routine, or feeling out of sync with peers?
How does The Dorm’s Clubhouse space contribute to client success?
Our Clubhouse model is integral to the community aspect of our programming. I often refer to it as “sneaky therapy” because many therapeutic moments happen organically in-between more structured activities.
For example, I’ll see participants sharing phone numbers, discussing homework challenges, or simply commiserating about everyday struggles. These interactions allow participants to practice social skills in a more relaxed, natural setting and help build stronger bonds. The Clubhouse space creates opportunities for participants to connect and engage in meaningful conversations that promote community building and relationship development.
How does in-person support help clients improve their inter-personal skills?
In both group settings and the clubhouse, participants practice important social skills such as active listening, mindful communication, and sharing space with others. For example, they get the chance to share their stories while others practice active listening and respond thoughtfully. Participants learn to be aware of non-verbal cues, like how their body language or voice tone can impact communication. In the clubhouse, there are also moments when clients receive direct, kind feedback—like being told they’re speaking too loudly—and this builds awareness about how their words and actions are received by others. It’s a very practical and supportive way to help participants improve their social interactions.
Thank you, Amie!
About our Community Approach to Care:
Our intensive outpatient, in-person programming provides young adults with neuro-developmental disorders the opportunity to build meaningful connections, develop crucial social skills, and grow in a safe and clinically supported environment. Through real-world interactions and community-building during group therapy, during community meals, social outings, and in-between sessions, participants gain the confidence to navigate relationships and life challenges with a greater sense of belonging.
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